Wednesday, 30 September 2015

Social Etiquette in China

Social Etiquette in China: How to save your ‘Face’ in everyday situations!

Successfully navigating social interactions and events in China may seem a daunting prospect to foreigners. Countless unspoken rules govern interpersonal conduct, and it is all too easy to accidentally offend or embarrass your companions or hosts.
Pay close attention to our top tips in order to avoid committing a faux-pas in public.

Doing Business:

·           Pay close attention to the social hierarchy amongst your colleagues and business partners, and make sure to respect it by acting with deference towards those in more senior positions
·           At formal dinners don’t talk about topics your Chinese business partners might not understand (such as foreign sporting competitions). Use a meal to get to know business partners personally.
·           Present your business cards with both hands as a sign of respect. Receive those others with both hands as well.

Social Occasions:

·           Greet the eldest person in a Chinese family first, as a sign of respect
·           Be effusively grateful if somebody gives you a gift, but then set it aside to open in private, later on.
·           Take your guests to the front door of the restaurant or to their car at the conclusion of a meeting or a meal. It is offensive not to.

Common Mistakes to Avoid:

·           Beckon someone by waving them over to you with your palm down. Don’t point or beckon using your finger, as these gestures are offensive
·           Don’t feel offended if your Chinese partner asks personal questions the first time they meet you, as it’s just a way to get to know you and to show you kindness.
·           Don’t give the following gifts: clocks, shoes, umbrellas, and knives. In Chinese these carry a double-meaning; for example, umbrellas and knives can symbolise separation

These tips are a selection of the help and advice contained within our illustrated guide:
 “Do’s and Don’ts in China: A Guide to Culturally Sensitive Behavior in China”.
Visit our website to order your copy today




Sunday, 27 September 2015

LGBT Life in China

(LGBT = Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, and Transgender)

Historically, homosexuality, so long as it didn’t interfere with the Confucian duty to marry and produce offspring, was generally accepted. As a matter of fact, ten emperors in Chinese history were said to be openly bisexual and were even listed with the names of their lovers. However, when the communists came to power in 1949, homosexuality was considered disruptive to a stable society. During the Cultural Revolution, the persecution of gay people was sanctioned by the government.

In 2001, attitudes began to change when the government rescinded a 1989 law that made homosexuality a psychological disorder. However, no civil rights law exists to address discrimination or harassment on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity. The media tends to censor positive depictions of gay couples in films and television shows and households headed by same-sex couples are not permitted to adopt children and do not have the same privileges as heterosexual married couples.

Photo from the recent Shanghai Pride Festival
http://www.shpride.com/?lang=en








In general, homosexuality is ignored by the population. This is made all the easier because open affection between same sex friends, regardless of the sexual orientation, is very common.  Nevertheless, the social stigma of being homosexual is still very much alive, and it will still be quite a while until homosexuality is widely accepted. Chinese/Taiwanese culture is very family oriented and parents expect grandchildren, therefore many people still choose to hide their sexual orientation, and end up marrying and having children.


In the majority of cases, LGBT expats living in China are not met with significant difficulties. It isn’t hard to find other members of the LGBT community, and it doesn’t do any harm to ask around and be inquisitive about the local scene. Conservatism should be the rule, however; China is still a conservative society, and public displays of same-sex affection are best avoided.


Although more prominent in first-tier Chinese cities like Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, gay clubs, bars, tea houses, saunas, and support centers are also becoming more widespread in second-tier cities like Xi'an, Dalian, and Kunming. However, it is still forbidden to advertise or list gay or lesbian bar in magazines and newspaper. Instead, they are listed as “alternative lifestyle bars.”


CITY SPECIFIC DIRECTORY:
BEIJING:
The Beijing LGBT Center (The Center):
 A non-profit, community-based organization that empowers the Beijing lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender (LGBT) community through offering social services, organizing advocacy programs, and providing a safe, fun, and inviting social space. (
http://bjlgbtcenter.org/en/index.asp).

Beijing Gay, Lesbian, and Allies Discussion (BGLAD):
An organisation of people who wish to support the local gay, lesbian and bisexual community. The group meets regularly for various activities.
http://www.meetup.com/BeijingLGBT/ :
An online forum to organize social events for the LGBT community in Beijing


Bars and Clubs:

Adams (#40 Sanlitun Road 三里屯酒吧街,40号)
A newly opened but well-reviewed bar offering good food, drinks, and a mellow space for the queer and straight community.

Alfa (6 Xingfu Yi Cun Hutong, 朝阳区幸福一村6号工体北门对面的胡同里 ):
Gay-friendly club that has gay events during weekends. They support the Beijing LGBT center by donating more than 60% of the income from their gay events. Reasonable admission fee includes one free drink (juice, beer or cocktails). Mostly young, trendy, local crowd, but there are also visitors, expats, mid-aged and mature gays, lesbians and straight partiers
Funky  (6/F, 8 Gongti Xilu, 工体西路8号6层):
Above par music and generous cocktails.
Kai  (3/F Tongli Studio, Sanlitun)
Basic, no-frills black box with bar, DJ, small dance floor and booth seating. Very diverse, younger crowd.
Mesh  (The Opposite House, 1 Sanlitun Bei Rd, Sanlitun, 地址 三里屯北街 1号 ):
The Thursday night gay crowd (mostly the expat portion as this 5-star bar is expensive) starts their evening here about 10pm. This world-class bar and its spectacular Japanese-designed hotel setting are well worth a visit for fans of contemporary design. From the non-lobby which is more a Chinese modern art museum, to Mesh's Duchamp-inspired collection of resin castings of plastic drinking bottles, The Opposite House is pure eye candy. Ask to see the rooms and the stainless-steel swimming pool.
Chill Café & Bar (2 Andingmen Xidajie, Dongcheng Dist, 安定门西大街2号院,安定门桥西南角)
Gay-managed, LGBT-friendly bar and cafe in a modernized hutong courtyard setting. Manager, Henry, is plugged into the local gay scene and is happy to offer the latest news. Every Wed night LGBT visitors, expats and locals gather at 8pm for their Pink Wednesday social when Y$10 is donated from each cocktail to support local LGBT projects and initiatives.
Two Cities (46 Fangjia Hutong, Dongcheng Qu, 东城区,方家胡同46 号)
Run by two gay friends from Taiwan. Coffee, teas and desserts in a spacious hutong building with large picture windows ideal for people watching. Indoor and outdoor seating. A good, quiet spot for talking with friends. Open 1-11pm Mon-Thu and Sun; 11am-midnight Fri and Sat.
An Club, at Amnesia (Ground Floor, SOHO, Guanghua Lu, Chaoyang district. Saturdays only. 朝阳区光华路SOHO一层):
Run by legendary lesbian impresario An Shao and now celebrating its second year of existence in a brand new venue. An represents one of the most diverse, exciting, and best value for money nights in the city.

Destination (7 Gongti Xi Lu,Chaoyang district, 朝阳区工体西路7号):
Despite being Beijing’s longest-established LGBT venue (it was launched around 2004), Des, as it’s affectionately known to locals, has managed to remain top dog. The popular Friday and Saturday spectaculars are among the best-attended and most colourful in town, and the multi-level layout prevents most spaces other than the heaving dance floor from ever being intolerably overcrowded. The confidential and free HIV testing clinic on the top floor, run by golden-hearted volunteers from LGBT NGO Danlan, is also a valuable addition. Drinks are buy-one-get-one-free before 10pm. Entry charges vary and usually include a free drink. Regulars can purchase membership cards (500RMB or 1,000RMB) for discounted entry and drinks deals.


SHANGHAI
ShanghaiLGBT (https://groups.yahoo.com/neo/groups/shanghailgbt/info):
 An online community of gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and straight individuals in Shanghai, China. The main organizer of ShanghaiPRIDE which happens in June.

Angel @ ICON (Shanghai Stadium -access by Gate 7 on Lingling Road (near Xietu Road), Xuhui District 上海市 徐汇区 八万人体育场 零陵路7号门进, 近斜土路,):
The most popular weekend gay dance party in Shanghai.  Angel moved to a new home at club ICON in March 2014. ICON is the largest gay dance venue in Asia, with state-of-the-art light and sound system. Special events are held regularly, including the ever-popular Heaven party

Lucca (390 Shanghai) (390 Panyu Road (near Fahuazhen Road), Changning District 中国上海市长宁区番禺路390号, Shanghai):
One of the most popular gay venues in Shanghai.   This award-winning bar & restaurant hosts live music during the week and turns into a fabulous dance club with live DJ and party-goers filling the dance floor at weekends. Weekly themed event usually takes place on Saturday.

Eddy’s Bar (1877 Huaihai Middle Road, Xuhui DIstrict, Shanghai):
A Shanghai institution.  Eddy’s Bar opened in Weihai Lu in 1995 but moved to Huaihai Lu in 2002. It is the longest-running gay venue in the city and still pulls in crowds of locals and expats on the weekends.  A great place to hang out before heading to Shanghai Studio. Eddy’s has an interesting décor, combining grey slate, Chinese lanterns and Asian art.  Great service and affordable drinks.  Busy after 10pm.

Blend
(3 Yongjia Road, Lane 15, Huangpu District, Shanghai) :
Popular LGBT hangout that has re-enforced its gay-friendly credentials by sponsoring the 2013 Shanghai Pride. Blend offers a great selection of smoothies, ice creams, pastas and pizzas, along with a wide selection of coffees, sodas, cocktails, beer and wine and free WiFi. Regular weekday evening happy hours and excellent weekend brunch menu.













Sunday, 23 August 2015

Keeping Fit in Beijing

Keeping Fit in Beijing

This week Beijing comes under the world sporting spotlight when it hosts the World Athletics Championships at the iconic Bird’s Nest Stadium. Away from professional track and field though, what is sport like in Beijing?

One of the most difficult aspects of relocating to anywhere is managing to preserve a fit and healthy lifestyle; particularly in the first few weeks of living in a new place. This is especially true when it comes to China. Often new expats find themselves struggling to keep into shape and notice deterioration in fitness and health. This blog will act as a brief guide to explain why a healthy lifestyle can be difficult to achieve abroad and aim to alleviate these problems by providing tips and a list of recreational sport clubs in Beijing.
For more detailed information, please contact info@apachina.com

Why is it so hard to keep healthy in China?
l  New Surroundings. On first moving to a new city, it takes time to adjust and find your way around your new environment- whether it is finding your way to work, locating and mapping out the nearest supermarket or navigating the public transportation system. It therefore takes considerably longer to get things done and this bites away at any leisure time you would otherwise have to socialize or exercise.
l  Language Barrier. Often without knowing the native language it can be more difficult to join local clubs or even gyms. While this is not always the case, the daunting thought of such an undertaking is often enough to dissuade new expatriates from joining.
l  New Diet. If you are a choosey eater and have yet to find a supermarket that sells homely goods, you may find yourself returning to something that reminds you of home- such as fast food chains like McDonald’s or KFC. Many expat workers find themselves eating fast-food many times a week because not only is it cheap, but it is something that you know is safe and recognizable.
l  Pollution. Beijing is infamous across the world for its pollution problems; it was even a concern before the 2008 Summer Olympics. Many expats are dissuaded from outdoor exercise because they fear the health ramifications of the high pollution.

Top Tips
l  If you are not immediately comfortable with joining a local sports club or gym, be sure to exploit the large expatriate scene in Beijing and join an expatriate sports club; some of which are listed below
l  Having said that, try your utmost to eat locally. Chinese food is substantially healthier than Western food with less fattening dairy products. This way, even if you don’t have time to exercise regularly, you can still maintain a healthy diet.
l  Download Apps that will help you overcome the language barrier and be able to order from a Chinese menu. Top picks for this are Waygo which allows you to scan and translate a written Chinese menu, and Pleco which acts almost as a Chinese Dictionary.
l  Be sure to utilize public gyms. They are located in most parks in Beijing and provide an excellent opportunity to even do a few reps on resistance machines. While you probably don’t want to be spending hours at these, they are ideal to stretch out and make a big difference.
l  The importance of drinking enough water, particularly in the summer months, cannot be stressed enough! Without it you’ll become sluggish and not have the energy to perform at work or to exercise.
l  Don’t be afraid to ask to join locals in a game of football or a session of Tai Chi. More often or not they would be more than happy for you to join and you don’t need a strong grasp of Chinese to be able to ask. If you have the confidence to do this it is a great way to make new friends and find out more about events and life in the surrounding area.
l  Get out of the city! This is the best solution if you suffer heavily from the side effects of air pollution. Beijing is easy to leave via public transportation and nearby (within an hour) there are numerous areas to hike or cycle.
l  Try commuting by bike. If you don’t have time to get down to the gym every day before and after work then why not try riding a bike there. Beijing has many cycle lanes and while the roads might seem incredibly busy, the traffic moves slow enough for cyclists to be safe and comfortable. What’s more, a decent bike can be bought for as little as 350RMB.
Sport Clubs

Badminton
There’s a reason that the Chinese Olympic team dominates the badminton events every year- they practice it almost religiously.

Beijing International Badminton Club Meeting twice a week on Wednesday evenings and Sunday mornings, the BIBC welcomes everyone to join them. Contact: 6433 5226.

Cycling

Everybody has heard the song ‘Nine Million Bicycles in Beijing’, and the number in the whole of China is around 300 million! Cycling is not only a great form of exercise but also an excellent way to see and learn your surroundings in both the city and countryside. A list of five trails can be found here but if you want to join a cycling community there is also plenty of opportunity

The Beijing Peloton This is the prominent road cycling group in Beijing. It is a popular group because it caters for cyclists of all skill ranges and meets regularly. Furthermore the group organizes trips to Mongolia for the most avid cyclists. Contact: 135-1102-3672, www.beijingpeloton.com

Beijing Road Cycling A smaller group than the Beijing Peloton aimed at more experienced riders, Beijing Road Cycling typically ride on Tuesdays and Thursdays from Chaoyang park depending on the air quality. On weekends they take to the mountains around Beijing. Contact: beijingroadcycling@yahoogroups.com

Football

Even though the national team is famously unsuccessful in China, football is immensely popular and the most watched international sport in China. One statistic predicts there are 100 million Manchester United fans in China! Participation is therefore easy in both expat and local communities. APA would recommend you to try both because it is a great way to communicate with the local people and bridge the culture gap.

Beijing Barbarians FC Labelling itself as the ‘United Nations of Football, Beijing Barbarians are one of the largest and most internationally diverse amateur football clubs in the city. Training occurs every Tuesday evening at Chaoyang Park. Contact: contactus@beijingbarbarians.com , www.beijingbarbarians.com

Forbidden City FC With more local players than BBFC, but still with international membership, Forbidden City FC ensures that you can enjoy playing with local people without being completely overwhelmed by the language gap. Training occurs every Wednesday evening at Lido Park. Contact: www.forbiddencityfc.com


Golf

In China golf is well regarded in business circles. However this sometimes means that courses are difficult to access for the general public. There are nevertheless several golf clubs, both for expats and locals, which can be joined in Beijing.

Beijing Golfers Club Having been around for 20 years, Beijing Golfers Club is a well established club with over 200 members. Rounds are played every Sunday at different courses in Beijing and even non-members can join. Contact: 138-1144-1543, http://www.beijing-golfers-club.org

Beijing Ladies Golf Very similar to the Beijing Golfers Club, Beijing Ladies Golf is a club exclusively for women who play every Thursday Contact: 8532-1306 www.beijingladiesgolf.com

Gyms

China has many health clubs and easy to access, particularly in Beijing. While popular Western gym chains have a strong presence here, they are often more expensive than their Chinese counter-parts.

B Active Is one of the most popular 24 hour gyms for expats in Beijing located in Sanlitun. With its state of the art clean air systems ensuring the air remains crisp and clean, it is ideal for exercise if you suffer from respiratory problems stemming from pollution. Pay for a membership or pay as you go. Contact: 5900 4748, www.bactive.cn 

California Fitness Situated by the CBD in Guoma, this gym is all about the atmosphere. It includes a basketball court, a boxing ring and steam rooms. Contact 4008 100 988, www.china.californiafitness.com

Hiking

Unlike Shanghai, Beijing is surrounded by magnificent countryside. With national parks easily accessible from the city it is the ideal location to take up hiking; whether along the Great Wall, through dense forest or even around the outer suburbs of the city.

Beijing Hikers With walks ranging from an easy hike around Intelligence Valley to braving the trek up the hillsides of the Great Wall, Beijing Hikers offers a great opportunity to get fit and discover Chinese culture. Free meals are also often provided. Contact: 6432-2786 www.beijinghikers.com

Beijing Outdoor Adventure Club If you enjoy walking off the beaten track then this group of young adventurists might be for you. With no required level of fitness, Beijing Outdoor Adventure Club is open to anyone who wishes to explore the city and beyond. Contact :www.meetup.com/Beijing-Outdoor-Adventure-Club

Swimming

If you are particularly prone to the health implications from pollution, a great way to avoid doing exercise outside is to join a swimming club that often operates indoors. There are plenty of pools around the city if you wish to swim alone, however APA would recommend you make a social event out of it and join a swimming club.

Dragon Fire Swim Club Dragon Fire is an international swim club exclusively for children from 4- 17. It gives them an opportunity to make friends, get fit and compete in events. Training is offered 7 days a week at 3 different times. Dragon Fire also organize dance lessons so it’s easy to ensure your children also keep a healthy and energetic lifestyle. Contact: www.dragonfire.com






More than anything to have a healthy body you need to have a healthy mind. Moving abroad can be a stressful time in your life. APA China works with you to ensure that you can thrive in China in both mind and body.

Friday, 7 August 2015

Good News for Expats in Beijing!

If you’re an expatriate working in Beijing then this week brings some good news. A new immigration regulation has been announced by the government that promises to make a significant difference to obtaining a Resident Permit.

In recognition of the fact that a 15 working day processing period for Resident Permits was inconvenient for many foreign employees in Beijing, who had to give up their passports for the entire period, the Public Security Bureau has reduced the processing time from 15 working days to 10 working days for the Residence permit applications. (This applies to both first time applications and renewals). This new regulation took effect from 1st August 2015.

The application period for a Work permit remains 5 working days for new application, and 1 working day for renewal application.

Not only will this new regulation reduce the length of time working expatriates and their families are without their passports (and therefore cant travel internationally) , but it may also help new arrivals get their household goods shipments a little sooner - since most moving companies will not ship household goods until the Resident Permit has been obtained.

Tuesday, 28 July 2015

Having a baby in China: a need-to-know guide for expectant parents




Giving birth outside of one’s home country, in an unfamiliar culture and without a network of friends and family on hand can be a daunting prospect. It is important to know what your options are, and how to ensure that your experience of pregnancy and childbirth are as smooth as possible.  

 Ten years ago, most expats living in China would go to Hong Kong or return to their home country to deliver their baby, but with the improvements in healthcare in general and in labour and delivery practices more specifically, this trip has become largely unnecessary.
 
In the first tier cities in China, you can choose between international, western-style hospitals and local hospitals. Smaller cities might not have an international hospital, so local hospitals are likely the only option. Routine and free prenatal care is available in second and third-tier cities, but it is limited.

International hospitals have high standard facilities and the doctors, nurses and staff are quite fluent in English but this comes at a high price. For expectant parents who don’t have international insurance, covering these costs by themselves can be very hard.
In the past, local hospitals didn’t always have a good reputation, but at least in the major 1st Tier cities, they are constantly improving and are offering better services to meet foreigner’s expectations. At these hospitals, the prices are more reasonable, but the doctors and staff probably are not very fluent in English, and the staff’s bedside manner might be different than what foreigners are used to. The minimum stay in the hospital is three days. This will be extended if there is the slightest concern for either newborn or mother. Both will be expected to stay in the hospital until the problem is rectified or identified. In most local hospitals, men are not allowed in the delivery room. Some hospitals have VIP rooms, where a husband is sometimes allowed to stay with his wife during delivery.

It is important to note that in China, a high proportion of deliveries are by caesarean-section. If you are strongly in favor of having a natural birth, it is important that you discuss and make clear your preferences with the doctors and hospital staff far in advance of your delivery date.
Homebirth is technically legal in China, but the practice is discouraged. Medical professionals are unable to attend the birth and local ambulances are slow to respond in case of an emergency. Also, birth certificates can only be issued by a hospital, so obtaining important paperwork may prove challenging.

All newborns should join a vaccination program within one month after the birth. Most hospitals have a specialized department within the Maternity and Aftercare department where you can get the vaccinations.
The most important thing is for parents to do some research to know what the options are and to choose the one that makes them most comfortable.
Here are some of the most popular hospitals in China offering maternity provision. In the local hospitals, expat parents might find that practices are not as patient/mother friendly as back home. Shanghai and Beijing have a lot of options, but in other cities United Family is the one with the first rate services and facilities. This comes at a high price, so parents have to check if their insurance covers this.
       Beijing
-          Beijing United Family Hospital
-          GlobalCare Women and Children’s Hospital
-          OASIS International Hospital
-          Amcare Women’s & Children Hospital
-          American-Sino OB/GYN Hospital
Shanghai
              International hospitals
-          American-Sino OBGYN
-          ParkwayHealth
-          Shanghai International Medical Center
-          Shanghai International Redleaf Women’s Hospital
-          Shanghai United Family Hospital
Local Hospital
-          International Peace Maternity & Child Health Hospital
-          Shanghai Changning Maternity & Infant Care
-          Shanghai East Hospital
-          Shanghai First Maternity and Infant Hospital
-          Shanghai Red House Maternity and Infant Hospital
Chengdu
-          New Born Hospital (Chengdu)
-          Huaxi Hospital (Chengdu)
Tianjin
-          Tianjin United Family Hospital
Guangzhou
-          Guangzhou Yilishabei Gynecological & Obstetrical Hospital
-          Guangzhou Women and Baby Hospital
-          Guangzhou United Family Hospital
Qingdao
-          Qingdao United Family Hospital

When a child is born, the hospital will issue the birth certificate. A child born in China with two foreign parents is not eligible for the Chinese nationality. Within a month of the birth, the child must be registered at the local Public Security Bureau. Parents also have to contact their embassy or consulate to arrange for a passport for the child. Different countries request different documents to get the passport, so it is best to contact the embassy to check. The child will not be able to leave China until he or she has a visa or residence permit. This needs to be obtained at the Exit and Entry Bureau once the child has a passport.

If a baby is born to one foreign parent and one Chinese parent, the baby automatically has Chinese citizenship. The Chinese nationality law does not recognize dual nationality. If one of the baby’s nationalities is Chinese, the Chinese authorities do not recognize the other nationality. The child will be considered Chinese until the citizenship is formally renounced.  Until one nationality is chosen for the child, it is very difficult to obtain a visa or permit from the Public Security Bureau and the child is not allowed to leave the country. Citizenship can be renounced at a local Public Security Bureau.

So in short, parents have to:
-          get the birth certificate from the hospital
-          register the birth at the Public Security Bureau (within one month)
-          get a passport at your embassy/consulate
-          apply for the child’s visa.



APA wishes you the best of luck and happiness in your experience of pregnancy and childbirth in China!